Cheating

Why be in a relationship if you're going to cheat?

This is a question that I have asked too many times to count. . . and the answer is always the same. It's always "Because it's easy" or "I don't know" or even "Because my significant other won't leave me".

It's a shame that we have gotten to the point where cheating is an expected part of the relationships we're in. And the only thing worse is that a majority of people who are cheated on, remain with their partners. Wake up and realize this:

You are being cheated on because you allow yourself to be.

Put your foot down! If you don't, you will continue to get walked all over.

While I'm on the subject of cheating, here's a little something else. . .

G I R L S . . . you need to realize something. Just because a guy cheats with you, doesn't mean he will leave his girl for you. Don't think that you're bigger and better than his girl, because you aren't. If you were, he wouldn't be with his girl. . . he would be with you. There's something about her that's keeping him with her, even if he is cheating. . . at the end of the day he ALWAYS goes back to her. Remember that the next time you start to bash his girl.

If a guy does leave his girl for you, don't forget this:

If he cheats WITH you, he'll cheat ON you.

If you're going to hoe around, don't hoe around while you're in a relationship. . . and don't hoe around with someone who is in a relationship.